You don’t have to be the kind of mother your friend is. Or the mom you see on Instagram who appears to have it all together or anyone other than you. But it’s important to take care of yourself, stop putting yourself last on the to-do list, and be a demonstration of a woman to your children. 

Don’t give until you’re empty and end up sad or resentful. It’s okay to do the things that fill your soul and refuel and recharge you. Your family should support you in doing what makes you happy. It will benefit them.